YOU CAN'T HAVE EVERYTHING




At some point you may have to choose, if you want to make personal life your priority or your career. Because you can only really, truly love only one. Is it going to be a person and a family or is it going to be a career? Sounds wrong right? You don't even want to accept it. You're probably thinking I'll have everything or I'll manage to get most of what I want... but I'm saying you can't. Why? Read on.



It's a tough choice but, you might as well make it right now. Most people don't have to put their relationships through such tests but those who make it big do.

So ask yourself; Is what you're doing your final dream or a dream that fulfills several smaller dreams?
Is it a car or is the attention it gets? Is it love or the safety of a relationship? Is it love at all or is it just sex? Is it the job or the money it brings? Is it the position you're in or is it the power and fame it brings. The truth is, you can chase many things but, you can either have a little of everything or all of one thing.

You Can't Have Everything. Four words a book's worth of meaning.

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